Just a few days ago Nana I found granddads sister, I feel sure he sent me on this journey too now he is besides you :) she is so like gramps Nana, her eyes and personality, but she is really ill, though you would not think it, fit and memory bright as a button. She is going to giver me that other torment that has fuzzled my mind about uncle Charlie.. she has a photo and I cannot await to see her again. She really adored gramps, it was so deep and passionate when she expressed her love for him and how close they were. I was so pleased to hear memory was not just imagination,, I knew my uncle Charlie died when I was 2, but still I remembered a photo of an army boy on the wall and can still see it but the face has faded unlike yours. She told ,e of the devastation of the loss for you both, and you and granddad had the first boy among you all, it saddened me to know how much pain yu went through nana, your own mother, then your first born. I will have to write all my notes down, she is a funny old lady, :)